“I’m the king of the world!”
Famous line shouted by “Jack” played by Leonardo de Caprio at the unsinkable Titanic Ship. This is what comes to my mind when my friend told me he could not break up with his current girlfriend though he has doubts if he truly loves her because he is treated like a KING.
Men like to be king. But when his girlfriend announces that she’s pregnant, reality sinks in and my friend wishes to be just an ordinary peasant without confusions and doubts crowding his mind about the situation.
Happiness over responsibilities. Freedom over moral values.
Tying the knot for love? Or saying I do for babies?
Having babies is the best experience in the whole universe. It is worth sharing and it is worth being responsible for.
Building better relationships on the other hand is important as well to be ready for whatever consequences life may bring.
To my friend, Karl, the decision is yours.
Getting back your freedom and finding happiness with a girl you really want to spend your life forever.
Or…..
Being a good father and face the responsibility of parenthood in lieu of personal happiness and the search for true love.
Good Luck.
It happens to me. I used to think like that before. Should I enter marriage for the sake of the baby even if I was in love with the father? But then I realized that I was not ready enough to enter the responsibilities of being a mother and being a wife. It’s a big responsibility and big decision to make.
ReplyDeletethanks for your comment! it'is inspiring to know that others could relate to my writings..
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